Monday, May 28, 2012

How did I know my daughter was autistic?


To be completely honest, I thought I was well educated on special education.  I mean after all, I have worked with several different students with a wide range of learning disabilities, physical disabilities, etc.  However, reality didn’t set in until I had my own child.  Let's face it, there is a huge difference between reading something in a book and living it.  My first child was a beautiful, healthy, bright eyed little girl.  As an educator, I had such high hopes.  I hung black and white pictures next to her changing table and read to her every day.  Then one day, my experience in education told me something was wrong with my beautiful baby.  Since her birth I struggled to get her to eat. She was very thin and the insurance company even sent someone to weigh her weekly.  All she did was sleep and then as she got older, it was impossible to get her to sleep.

Eventually, I learned that my daughter is autistic.  To be more specific my oldest daughter, Mary, has Asperger’s syndrome. To me it seemed like a very long time to get her properly diagnosed and treated. 

Today, when I tell people that I have a daughter on the autism spectrum they always ask 2 things:

1.“When did you know?” (Or what symptoms did you notice first?)

I always say, to be honest I knew almost immediately. I was sure by the time she was six months and had no doubt by the time she was one, that something was wrong.  At first I thought she had S.P.D. (Sensory Processing Disorder).  All autistics have sensory processing issues but NOT all people with sensory issues are autistic.

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2. “How did you know?”

 In my daughter’s situation, it was her sensory sensitivities that were very apparent from the beginning.  Sensory sensitivity or sensory processing disorder (S.P.D.) is a neurological disorder that has trouble taking in, processing and responding to sensory information from not just the five senses (sight, smell, taste, touch, hearing) but with the proprioceptive and vestibular senses, too.  I had never heard of the latter two so let me explain.  Proprioceptive dysfunction is when your body doesn’t know where it is in space so your body has trouble positioning your limbs in relation to each other, which makes people with a dysfunctional proprioceptive sense appear clumsy. The vestibular sense is the sensation of body rotation, movement and gravitation that are controlled by the inner ear, which becomes apparent when you have a child that enjoys spinning for 20 minutes and can still walk a straight line.

I didn’t know what was wrong, but I knew that something was awry.  So I started to make a list, which was very helpful to medical professionals.  I recommend that everyone does the same with their child.  Click here to view a checklist of SPD related symptoms. http://spdsupport.org/resources/symptoms.shtml



Below is the list of some of the sensory related symptoms that I noticed and when my daughter Mary reached milestones.

Hyposensitivity Vestibular Dysfunction

  • Craves fast, spinning, and/or intense movement experiences
  • Loves being tossed in the air
  • Could spin for hours and never appear to be dizzy
  • Always spinning in a swivel chair/getting upside down positions
  • Loves to swing as high as possible and for long periods of time
  • Is a "thrill-seeker"; dangerous at times
  • Rocks body, shakes leg/s, or head while sitting
  • Likes sudden or quick movements



Proprioceptive Dysfunction

  • Seeks out jumping, bumping, and crashing activities
  • Kicks his/her feet in chair while sitting at table
  • Sucks on fingers
  • Loved to be swaddled but is satisfied to just be covered when sleeping
  • Prefers clothes (and belts, hoods, shoelaces) to be tight
  • Loves/seeks out "squishing" activities
  • Enjoys bear hugs
  • Excessive banging on/with toys and objects
  • Loves "roughhousing" and tackling/wrestling games
  • Frequently falls on floor intentionally
  • Loves pushing/pulling/dragging objects



Auditory Hyposensitivity –

  • Loves to make noise
  • Loves loud music
  • Needs directions repeated over and over



Hypersensitivity to Oral Input –

·         Extremely picky eater

·         Drinks must be a certain temp

·         Extremely picky about cups and feel of nipples



   As an infant Mary…

·         Never mouthed objects even when teething

·         Never put feet down to bounce on legs of a person; or in the “jolly jumper” or exersaucer

·         Never put pressure on her legs

·         Would raise legs into a seated position and hold them there when asked to stand up

·         Showed poor motor skills – (most of these were met with the dedication and hard work of the PTs and OTs)

·         rolled over (Nov. 10th 2007 – 4 months old),

·         disliked being on belly as an infant,

·         delayed in crawling (day before 1st bday),

·         pull to stand (Oct 2008-15months old),

·         cruising (Nov 2008-16 mo. old),

·         stand up by herself in middle of floor (March 2009 – 20 months), take her first steps (mid January 2009 -18 months old),

·         will take a few steps with assistance (Feb 2009)

·         will toddle on own (April 2009 – 21 months)

·         When she finally did roll over she wouldn’t roll back to her original position

·         She doesn’t kick one leg at a time – instead she thrusts her legs from her hips bilaterally (stimming) Click here for a definition of stimming - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stimming

·         Took awhile to adjust to the feel of water, grass and sand (for months she had to be sponge bathed) (wouldn’t venture off outside blanket for fear of touching the grass) (took several days to acclimate her to the sand box)



As a toddler Mary…

·         Is constantly seeking thrill

·         Loves to rock

·         Loves to be upside-down

·         Loves to bounce

·         Loves to spin

·         Loves to climb

·         Loves to swing as high and fast as possible

·         Becomes distressed about having nails clipped or things in her hair

·         Likes to wear hats/hoods

·         Must have a hat/hood on to keep her hair from flapping against her head when jumping or swinging

·         Hates the wind or anything that causes her hair to move

·         Has frequent temper tantrums that can last 45 minutes

·         Has many mood swings

·         Becomes violent at times with herself (for no apparent reason will start hitting herself on the head or head-butting things)

·         Needs to be wrestled down to have her diaper changed

·         Likes to wear sunglasses

·         Does not stay asleep – very easily awaken

·         Is nearly impossible to get to sleep

·         Is extremely affectionate with people – loves hugs...although they usually have to be requested or initiated by her

·         Likes to sit on different objects – will sit on books, boxes, cans, toys, etc.

·         Sucks two fingers upside-down to soothe self

·         Randomly throws herself onto the floor

·         Is extremely difficult to feed (she is a very picky)

·         In constant motion – when sitting or excited her legs and arms are constantly flailing

·         Bangs or hits her head –not just when frustrated

·         Purposefully sticks her fingers in the back of her throat to initiate her gag-reflex

·         Seems very lazy – if anything is too heavy or too much work she gives up

Today, Mary is doing great.  Most people don’t even realize that she has a behavioral disability.  If it wasn’t for the early intervention that I sought after, I wouldn’t be able to sit here today and type this.  Don’t get me wrong, there are days or places that she still cannot tolerate.  For instance, Stop & Shop has lighting that still sets her off today.  However, things have gotten a little easier and I am fortunate to have an autistic child with the ability of speech.  After she is calm, we can sit down and try to figure out what set her off. My husband and I have also learned to watch for cues that signal us that she has had too much and needs to be removed from an environment.  This kind of learning, you can't learn in a book.  Some things, must be lived. 

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Advocate and learn about dyslexia


As a tutor, one of the most common issues that students (or their parents) come to me with is struggling with dyslexia. Dyslexia is the number one learning disability that affects children. For those of you that know little about dyslexia, let me explain what dyslexia is because to be honest, many people are misinformed on the topic. No, it doesn't just mean that dyslexics see backwards because if that were true, we would be able to just hand out mirrors and dyslexia would be solved. And no, not just boys are dyslexic. A pretty even number of both genders is dyslexic.
The simplest definition that I have found online to describe dyslexia is from www.smartkidswithld.org, which states," Dyslexia is in part the result of inefficient phonological processing—the ability to sort out, analyze, and sequence sounds heard in spoken language."
It is important to know that dyslexia, as with all learning disabilities, it is a neurological problem.
Fortunately, thanks to lots of medical research lately, Yale has concluded that the dyslexic person has "a disruption of left-hemisphere posterior neural system," which provides irrefutable evidence that dyslexia does exist. A dyslexic person has a "normal, healthy brain." This just means that the left part of the brain that is responsible for language development, processing information differently. In fact, it's this unique process that many people believe has led to dyslexics having cognitive and emotional strengths such as great critical thinking, empathy, strong vocabularies, and great out-of-the-box thinking.
Unfortunately, the American Psychiatric Association is recommending that dyslexia, dyscalculia and disorder of written expression not be included in the DSM-5. Psychologists, and in this specific case, School Psychologists use the DSM to diagnose conditions like dyslexia. They are letting the public state their opinions on this decision until June 15th. Please help advocate for dyslexia by signing Yale's petition by Dr. Sally Shaywitz at http://dyslexia.yale.edu/LegalizeDyslexia.html to help make sure that Congress legalizes dyslexia. Many people do not have access to the testing that they need to get the help that they deserve. Every American deserves the right to be able to read well. Without the ability to read, students will not graduate and our economic strength will continue to dwindle. Everyone is complaining about dropout rates. Here is our chance to help put an end to rising high school dropout rates. I know all too well how many kids get frustrated with learning because they were not properly diagnosed at a young age with a learning disability and never received the services that could've helped them. I urge everyone that hasn't signed the online petition to visit the link above so "testing agencies grant accommodations for dyslexic students so that high stakes tests assess ability and not disability, and students are allowed to go forward and succeed in life. High stakes tests must be reliable, valid and accessible to dyslexic children and adults. Without accommodations, highly capable, intelligent students are being denied the opportunity to show what they can achieve and contribute to society.
We support a much-needed Bill of Rights for Dyslexic Children and Adults, that affirms the following:




  • Accommodations required so that high stakes tests assess ability and not disability
  • High stakes tests must be reliable, valid and accessible to dyslexic children and adults
  • Dyslexia is real: schools must accept the diagnosis of dyslexia
  • Dyslexia is a Clinical Diagnosis
  • Diagnosis/Identification reflects that it is an unexpected difficulty
  • Instruction is evidence-based (proven to be effective)
  • Dyslexia is persistent, no need to retest after high school"
If you think that you or someone that you know is dyslexic, get the help you deserve.
Some great dyslexic resources on the web are www.ncld.org, www.dyslexia.yale.edu, and www.ldonline.org.

 

Monday, May 21, 2012

Summer Brain-Drain

Did you know that students loose up to 60% of the knowledge they learned in the previous school year over the few months of summer break?  Most of T.L.R.'s language tutors will tell you that the saying, "If you don't use it, you loose it," is very true.  I've always thought of the brain as a muscle because if you don't use it and train it and feed it well then it will not perform at it's best just like any other muscle in the body.  You wouldn't expect a cyclist to hop on a bike after a three month break and win a race, so why should we expect students to not "train" their brains for the summer break and come back to school ready to pass standardized tests.
Tutoring over the summer is beneficial to both teachers and students.   For teachers, it helps them stay current with the topics they are teaching and perhaps even try new techniques or games to improve their classroom teaching methods.  For students, it helps them maintain what they have learned and build on those key concepts so they start the next year off stronger.
T.L.R. will be featuring a $5 off coupon in the Hartford Courant on May 25, 27, and 31st to the Hartford County.  You just might want to cut it out and book a tutor or homework helper to avoid the summer brain-drain.